well, first of all, think of what her likes and dislikes are and then act accordingly though once she has rejected you, it seems difficult to change her opinion. if not then look at other girls of similar specs.

First, try to see if you have any similarity in likeness or not. If yes, try to use that as a way to reach her. But seeing this conversation, I assume that you already tried everything. I would say just give up. You can't be love by everyone. The reason you are being reject is basically because she doesn't love you. Even if you force her to marry you, you are making her life miserable. Therefore making your life as a couple not very healthy. Being friends is great too!

Love is a powerful thing. One cannot directly express it to a girl. If one does that, clearly the guy is infatuated instead. Love is something that can't be directly expressed. It has to be subtly suggested by body gestures and acts of kindness. This guy seems like he's just had very first mistake in defining his feelings. He's not in love, he's infatuated. However, if he wants to continue his quest, I suggest not being so direct, rather being most suggestive and "cool" rather than direct and plain straight aggressive.

It's possible to make her fall in love with you, but first of all, you have to ask the girl why she rejected you. If you know the reasons, you can fix your attitude and it's good time to look at yourself again. If she hates you, you show her your good sides. Probably, she knows only your faults. Time is also important so don't rush and take your time. However, if she has someone whom she is interested, you should think of her feeling and don't be too persistent.

He should not rush into things if she already rejected him. Helpful or not, time is the only thing he has. Take his time to talk and find out her likes and once in a while make her happy by it. Help her with what you think you can do best at not help her by doing a horrible job. Make her feel you are important not just a toy. If that does not work then chill man, at least you tried your best and go find something else to do.

i think you should calm down and be cool about it. if she does not like you now does not mean she will forever hate you. It just sometimes you are not the right guy for her. i think you should find out what she likes and try to express to her. Also, if it did not work out you can just be her really good friend

I think you should not give up because she rejected you once and if you keep continuing your effort in trying to make her happy and try your best to make her fall in love with you, she will view you as a very man with willingness and faithfulness. But the most important thing is that you should be yourself even though you are trying to impress her you should never change your self. Impress her just the way you are.

He should know more about the girl first. Her likes and dislikes, hobbies, etc. When there is a similar interest, he should talk or do the thing they both like. Building rapport is important because it can build trust. Then I think gradually the girl might have more interest in the guy which can later develop into a relationship.

No one will love you if you don't love yourself. Don't be depressed. Think this way: There are more women than men in this world. So there is a lot of chance that you can find someone better. But if you really love her try to prove yourself.

you cant force someone to be in love with you. maybe you should give her more time since she may not ready for that kind of relationship. marriage is complicated and take time to decide. you should have in mind that she maybe not the one for you or she may not have feeling for you. love is not the feeling of only one person.

calm down and try not to be so obsessed. Take time to talk to her and get to know what she likes and you should also give her some time to know you better.

I think the man should calm down. The woman might not be her true love, he should spend more time to get to know her more before asking for a proposal. Love takes time...

The man should spend more time getting to know the woman before actually committing. If there is a change of mind, there will certainly be havoc.

You should really slow down and just find out this girl's interests. I mean you should already know before even falling in love the girl correct? Just take some time to find out more about this girl, talk to some friends about what you should do, and even ask this girl why she rejected you in the first place. After that, chances of you being able to woo this girl will increase immensely.

First of all, you need to calm yourself down. Take a step back and think where have you gone wrong. There are many possible reasons for the girl to reject you and if you want the girl back then if is your duty to find out how to win her back. If you know that she is the one, then maybe you need to start to change your self in order to be more compatible to her. Maybe try finding out what her love language is. When you know, you will be able to treat her according to her love language and if you luck turns out to be on your side then she might come back to you. If you have tried everything and she still doesn't change her mind then take it easy and move on.

Do not only use your words to express your feelings toward her. Do not only propose to her that you like her, but show her that you really feel that way. Put your feelings into actions and show that you're dependable. Someday that woman might notice your feelings toward her and change her perspective about you.

I think maybe the guy started too fast. They might just know each other, and the reason that the girl rejected him is because she is not sure of him. I think what the guy should do is go slowly. Starting with friends. Then prove to her that he can be that person. That he is the right guy, show to her that you are serious with her. Take care of her, make she feel safe. And give her some space so she won't feel uncomfortable and misses him sometimes when he is gone. Know what she likes, and try to give them to her. Know her love language, because that's the advantage you could get to be closer to her.

Just give her sometime to think about it by not bothering her. Give her time to decide what she thinks about him. If she really wants to reject him just let it happen. They will not truly love each other if one forces another. Truly, we cannot force each other to love if they did not really love. Anyway, if she rejects, then it is her decision to decide what she likes to.

I think you still have a chance to win her heart. You need to take time because a person can't love you right away. Show her how much you love her so that she'll know that you're sincere to her. If she still reject you, ask her why so that you could figure things out. I suggest you to keep on trying. Your relationship may develop in the future.

Rejected? Oh c'mon try again, don't just give up that easily. Have you found out the reason why she rejected you? If so then try to improve yourself for her(only if you really loves her) or find a way to prove your love to her. She probably think you proposed to her on a whim, so why not show her some real love languages?

It's just one rejection. If he really loves her, he should try to win her heart. After all, it really isn't that hard to make a girl fall for you. He just needs to stop rushing into the relationship and allow her some time to get to know him more. They should develop a friendship and see if they're compatible. Maybe the guy will even find out that he doesn't really like her and he's just after her because she's hard-to-get and he sees it as a challenge. Basically, I think he should take it slow, get to know each other well, treat the girl special and maybe she'll fall for him.

I don't think there is no way you can make someone fall in love with you, I think more time is needed for things to get better. wait for her to be able to realize something. You can continue to do little things for her to show her that you love her, but if she doesn't like it you should stop. Don't be extreme, don't love someone tooo much and don't go crazy because of one person, don't hate anyone to much.

He should be grateful that the girl rejected him directly, so that he wouldn't have to waste his time after her anymore. She doesn't like him period. Sometimes if you keep persisting that person might try to avoid you or even hate you, so the best solution is deal with it and find someone else.

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I don't know how this will turn out but in my opinion I will express my feeling to her directly whether she rejected it or not is not a problem. When you really love someone you will be happy when that person is enjoying their time in this temporary world. So I suggest the guy to think about is his feeling really love or just desire. If it is really love then tell her that you will be there for her when she is down and you will be happy if she is happy.

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Wow Manit, your comment is really deep! It's something that other people did not or would not have thought about, including me. I like the way how your view of love is so committed and lasting, even if it is a one-sided love. But what you said is true, if you really do love her, then you would be happy if she is happy.