well, she shouldn't blame herself as everyone can make mistakes. We need to learn from it.... I would suggest this girl try to forget eventhough it is hard but for the sake of her future life and her parents, she need to forgets the past and moves on. No man can live in this world without the past. If you never fall then you will not be raised. She should be strong ! :D It's never too late too change.
Consider this sad event as an obstacle in life that you have to face while living through this life. The past told you, who you used to be but not who will become. Sex is a beautiful thing that is given to us by God so it should be a happy moment when two people enjoy their time together. The guy has been acting in a very disrespectful way and he doesn't show that he love you anymore so let not the past destroy you and let these lessons lead you to the right path.
Once again you amaze me, Manit. I agree with you that the guy has been acting in a very disrespectful way. Leaving the past behind is also a good way of thinking. Don't dwell on the past, because one has eyes in the front for a reason, right? Leave the past behind, but remember, hindsight is 20/20.
In the first place, the girl needs someone who she can talk to about every single thing. I understand about losing her dignity but there is much more in life that she needs to think about. How would her mom and dad if she decides to kill herself? She needs to deal with the problem and move on. That guy doesn't worth a thing in her life. There always is someone out there that will be so much better for her.
This guy does not deserve the girl at all. He is a tool. He is not worth crying over. She should calm down and learn from her mistakes. Remember to not fall for someone so easily. Feelings cannot be controlled but she should know his background first. She should just move on with life and maybe tell the guys wife about what horrible things he had done to her. She deserves to know the truth and this girl deserves a much better guy. She should not end her life because of one stupid guy who does not know how to treat and respect a women. She should try to cope with this and move on and try not to make the same mistakes. What has happened to her could not be changed, but the future can still be changed. She could have a wonderful love. The right guy will come someday. The guy who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated and respects her.
She should learn from her mistake and make sure that it doesn't happen to her again. Although it is sad to see it, things like these happen so often in the world nowadays that the only thing we can do is to improve ourselves / be a better version of ourselves.
Well, if you believe in what goes around comes around, then he will get his turn. But for now its better if she can continue on the way she was and start new